{"id":47,"date":"2021-09-04T23:01:30","date_gmt":"2021-09-04T15:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selinahoyu.com\/?p=47"},"modified":"2025-10-01T22:41:53","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T14:41:53","slug":"heartbreak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/selinahoyu.com\/en\/heartbreak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u7d66\u5fc3\u788e\u7684\u4eba\u591a\u4e00\u4e9b\u4e9b\u6642\u9593\uff5c\u5931\u6200\u7684\u4eba\u4e16\u754c\u5728\u5d29\u89e3\uff5c\u5931\u6200\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6?\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u65b9\u6cd5\u53ef\u4ee5\u5feb\u901f\u8d70\u51fa?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"line-height: 1.7; letter-spacing: 2px;\">\n<p class=\"has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size\">\u96fb\u5f71\u300a\u751f\u547d\u4e2d\u7684\u7f8e\u597d\u7f3a\u61be\u300b\u88e1\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u9078\u64c7\u5728\u9019\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u662f\u5426\u6703\u53d7\u5230\u50b7\u5bb3\uff0c\u4e0d\u904e\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u9078\u64c7\u8b93\u8ab0\u50b7\u5bb3\u4f60\u3002\u6211\u559c\u6b61\u6211\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u3002(You don\u2019t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you. 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